A lot of women don’t enjoy hookup culture—so why do we force ourselves to participate?
Dating is often about looking for love, but for some people, it can simply be about having fun in the bedroom. With potential partners only a swipe away, it can sometimes be hard to hold out for your perfect match when there are so many alluring Mr or Miss Right Nows to choose from. I think the most common place to meet partners these days is dating apps, but the safety aspect is huge. I always ask to see them on Snapchat and speak to them on the phone too. Anything to avoid a catfishing issue, basically. For me, the biggest thing is managing expectations. Going into dating, especially casual sex, knowing what you want and being honest about this with potential partners is the key to success I think. My sex life is massively vanilla.
Actually good sex is hard to appear by, as are actually good, beneficial relationships. We're big fans of having one without the other, as elongate as everyone involved is happy after that safe and having a giant bite of fun. I cannot stand when people assume the only environment in which you can have good sex is all the rage a relationship. The best casual femininity I ever had was with a guy I was relatively friendly along with but not that close.