I’m Not Afraid of Getting Older
Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely conscious of this process.
At time you might feel like you're acute to be in a relationship…until the possibility is right in front of you. It's like when you accede to go skydiving with a acquaintance — then you see them be frightened out of the plane and you think, No way am I accomplishment that! Are you crazy? But you learned when you were three — with the whole monsters under the bed thing — that some fears are imaginary.