'I'm autosexual and I fancy myself more than other people'
We live on different continents, but inevitably, a few times a year, we find each other somewhere in the world, have a few days of romance, and then go our separate ways. It was while planning this vacation that it hit me: The two longest relationships of my life have both been with men who I was never officially dating. Boyfriends and girlfriends have come and gone, but my friends with benefits have stood the test of time. I mean, eight years. And he actually knows me better than a lot of my partners ever did. So what is it about the friends with benefits dynamic that is more sustainable, and often more transparent, than an actual relationship? People are skeptical of fuck buddies. Or at least, without getting super-jealous and Fatal Attraction—esque?
We earn a commission for products purchased through some links in this clause. Here are all the potential pros and cons What if you essentially end up liking them FFS. Jun 2, REX Sex with someone you care about, without all the accountability or emotional drama that can appear with a more serious relationship — sounds ideal really, doesn't it? Although it's obvious that one of the benefits is well, duh, more femininity, there are some other potential ups and downs you might want en route for consider.