Intimate Relationships & Marriage

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Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely conscious of this process. We can, in fact, make a choice whether to see our fate through a victimized lens or choose to be goal-directed and take power over our lives.

I used to be a nice chap — way back when. You accompany, I never saw being nice at the same time as a decision that needed to be made — I understood it at the same time as a state that naturally existed. Child oh boy was I wrong. Arrange of, anyway. There are some women who want the nice guy as they understand that nice means able and not nice means bad. But, most women seem to have the concepts confused. She wants excitement. She wants mystery, surprise, drama.

Men crack me up — to be fair, myself included. We all accomplish. We all know exactly the brand of woman we ought to aim up with in order to allow a happy and healthy relationship. Although guess what? Men choose the abysmal girl instead of the good child four out of five times. Constant though we all know that choosing the good girl is the astute decision, we almost never choose her. Here are 12 reasons:. Bad is exciting.