What It's Really Like to Be a Bisexual Woman
It's one of the oldest cliches in the book, that somehow having sex with a man makes you less 'manly' and less attractive to women. But actually the opposite is often true, and society is finally catching on. I'm a bisexual man. I've had sex with men, women and long lasting relationships with both. Personally, I have no preference. If I find someone entertaining or sexy I'll go for it, we'll work out what's going on in the bedroom when we get there.
A few months ago a young woman came to see me who had a minute ago turned 18 — and had been questioning her sexual orientation for years. She had been attracted to girls since she was at high discipline, but she had had sex along with both girls and boys. She at once believed she preferred girls, but how could she be a lesbian after she had also slept with boys? Her friends told her she was bisexual, but she didn't like en route for be labelled. It is quite coarse for lesbians to first have relationships with men.